.However what Astrid doesn't understand however is a fact that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that has two kids-- may attest to: The reality that your connection along with your moms and dads adjustments as well as evolves as you each grow older, as well as hopefully right. "Your planet facilities around [your children] when they're children [and also] it is actually a lot job but beautiful," O'Hara mentions. "Eventually, you actually skip that, due to the fact that after that you can not receive them to do everything you desire all of them to perform, considering that they begin establishing their very own minds, their very own point of views." And at some point, you end up in the area O'Hara, whose kids remain in their 20s and 30s, discovers herself right now, able to learn from her kids. "They are actually only such awesome younger individuals," she states. "I am actually certainly not their friend, yet I enjoy having conversations with all of them and also understanding how they deal with life.".